Forgive that person who did you wrong at some point in your life, that person who took you for granted, disrespected you, used hurtful words, harassed you, abused you, cheated on you or treated you poorly. That friend, neighbor, lover or whoever that person is, JUST FORGIVE.
The one who was hurting you was probably hurt inside, that is why he chose to hurt you at the very first place. Just forgive him. Forgive him cause forgiving helps you to move on. Forgive cause you deserve peace and to let go of the pain. Forgive cause he wants love and kindness than anyone else, that’s the message he was giving while he was hurting you and treating you bad.
He was weak inside, did not know how to handle his own feelings and thoughts in a healthy manner and was at a difficult phase in his life. Someone who is stable and loving would never hurt you physically or mentally. So instead of getting mad at him, be sorry for him that he did not experience the true pleasure of unconditional love at that moment. Or the fulfillment of being kind. Be sorry for him for all the pure and beautiful feelings he missed himself.
Cause that is who you are. You are a strong, loving, kind individual and do not let people or circumstances break you down or make you evil. Do not let any amount of hurt, disrespect or taking for granted drag you down or to put you into a place of frustration, anxiety or hopelessness. Those are only TEMPORARY emotions that develop with tough situations. Realize that and be so quick to focus on bright side again.
How he treats you tells about who he is and how you treat him is who you are.
Forgive him for all that he did and forgive yourself for staying at such a toxic place. Maybe you stayed there too long, reacted with anger, shouted back at him or did things that made the situation worse and more toxic.
It’s all okay, now it’s all in the past.
Tomorrow is always a brand new day. Next hour is always a brand new hour. Next minute is always a good time to start. Forgive and create new hopes, plans, targets and opportunities. Gracefully let go of things not meant for you.
Do not hold on to anger, fear, hatred or feelings of sadness. Forgive and let the light within you shine bright again.
Note : Forgiveness doesn’t mean that everyone deserves a second chance or that you should stay at places that doesn’t serve you respect. There are truly toxic bonds and dealbreakers in the society and it is always up to you to protect yourself from such situations. If you identify a place as somewhere not that healthy to stay, then you can simply forgive and move on with your life and you should. Forgiveness is not about saying “Yes” to things that’s wrong, forgiveness is an inside job where you forgive that person from your heart and continue your life with RIGHT people who treat you with love, kindness and respect that you deserve. Do not mistakenly identify “forgiveness” as giving chances to people who do not deserve you and who you should stay away from.
Love and blessings to all 💕