Who You Should Spend Your Time With?

“The pain of leaving will be much less than the prolonged pain that comes with staying”

Always remember this quote whenever you feel like staying or running back to a bond which you know is not good for your mental health. A bond which makes you question your worth. A bond where the other person is keeping you by their side only to use you as a support for their success or the bond that disrespects you.

You don’t need that bond. You don’t need anyone’s approval. You are worthy of all the good things in the world and the ones who are worthy of your love and kindness will never make you question your worth. They will love you for who you are. They respect you. They understand your wounds, fears, strengths, weaknesses and still love you regardless of those imperfections. And they guide you whenever needed. You have a big heart, they know that and they don’t take advantages out of that. They just help you grow. Support your dreams and remind you how smart you are. They just remind you what you deserve and tell you not to settle for less.

And you!

You are lucky to have them by your side. You are blessed to have that support. Thank god for gifting those amazing souls to your life. And those who came to your mind while reading this are the ones that’s worth your love. Your time. They are the ones you should keep in your life and spend your time with.

16 thoughts on “Who You Should Spend Your Time With?

  1. OH yes I couldn’t agree with you more. It’s good to always remember not to go back. I needed that reminder today! Have a beautiful day! ❤

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    1. Thanks for the lovely comment and so glad to know you found my post helpful 😊 having a reflection every now and then about with whom we spend our time is important. It helps to make sure that we truly live the life we wish to live.

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      1. Oh yes I couldn’t agree with you more! 🙂

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  2. So true Vihani. It’s hard to break some bonds but very much needed when the relationship is bad for you.

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    1. Indeed. We must respect ourselves enough to walk away from such toxic bonds.

      Thank you for reading 😊

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  3. This is so important! I want to be with people who I can be myself with.

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    1. Yes it feels so free to live with such people. And thank you for reading 😊

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  4. Always go forward, even if you are crawling. One quote I always remember 🤗🤗

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    1. That’s really a great quote. Thanks for sharing 🙂

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      1. Thanks, that’s just one I have in my locker 😏😏😏

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      2. Yes there are quotes that hit us hard for a reason unknown. I also have a significant amount of quotes that I always remember and love.

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      3. Yeah, I always love to take inspiration from quotes. It gives you that drive and motivation to do whatever it is you want in life. Keep remembering and loving quotes.

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      4. That’s true. And sometimes those quotes save us from getting into situations that could have ended up with a lot of regrets and issues.

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  5. Yes there are quotes that hit us hard for a reason unknown. I also have a significant amount of quotes that I always remember and love.

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